Note: The following post is a bit more passionate then most others on this blog, and perhaps more opinionated too. It takes a couple of swipes at Fox News and modern Television in general. If you are offended by such things, you might want to skip this one. However if you don't mind that sort of thing, be sure you read the comments too- there's some great information there as well. Also please note that the opinons expressed in this post are mine alone, and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of any other writers affiliated with this blog, nor is the blog in any way affiliated with Family Communications Inc.- Eric 5-18-10You may have read about this report some time ago. If not, it's available on the Wall Street Journal's site
at this link. Essentially it links Fred Rogers message of "you're special" with the sense of entitlement that many young adults feel today. Apparently the reason you're 20 something child can't drag himself away from the TV to find a job is because Mr. Rogers told him he didn't have to. I laughed when I first read about it months ago. I mean, first of all, people have been picking on Mr. Rogers forever, even when he was still with us. And the study does raise an interesting question, though I believe it's essentially incorrect in it's conclusion. So other than a brief sadness at the realization that Fred's lessons are only likely to get more obscured by the passage of time, I really didn't think much of it. Then today, I see that
Fox News has decided to put an even finer point on the story, labeling Fred Rogers "Evil". To clarify, while that is the headline, the bulk of the conversation between the two Fox hosts, seems to be played mainly as satire, with neither of them taking the idea behind the study too seriously. Still, to see Fred's legacy tossed around so cavalierly and not defended, really rankles me.
I don't know why a television segment got me more steamed than a University study, though perhaps it's because I know more of America watches TV, than reads nowadays and I suspect that as time passes, anything beyond Fred's "famous slogans" will be lost to further generations.
No, what really bothers me I guess is this inferrence that a man who preached such a positive message could somehow be responsible for unrelated negativity. Apparently the study is referring to a generation of children who had no other influences. They didn't have parents, they didn't have classmates, or teachers, or any responsible adults who made choices affecting these children's lives, it was all Fred Rogers- he spoke to them and thier destinies were set, locked onto a path because of misinformation that he fed them and the rest of the world was powerless to change.
Of course, any study is only as good as the data gathered. Perhaps if the researcher had watched Mister Rogers Neighborhood for any length of time, they would have been familiar with more than just the catchphrases. I know this is preaching to the choir, but here are a few of the more valuable lessons that Fred taught, and that I think directly contradict the conclusion of the study:
1)Deep and simple are far more important than shallow and complicated (Haha! Try and find something Deep and simple on Fox!)
2)Any feeling you have is allright, but it's what you do with your feelings that's important.
and most relevant to this article:
3) You can hope and wish all you want, but if you want something to get done, you've got to do it.
I don't deny that many young people have an alarming sense of entitlement, and perhaps a bit of the adversity our parents and grandparents had to deal with would have done me and my generation a lot of good. However, I don't believe that adversity should preclude a kind word from a parent, or a loved one telling you "you're special". God only knows what hundreds of thousands of children's lives would have been like without 30 minutes of Mr. Rogers here and there. In a time when the numbers of divorces skyrocketted, the TV news overflows with stories of school shootings, kids being bullied into suicide, and parents doing unspeakable things to the children in their care, how can anyone questions the value of one adult, even someone only connected through television, telling a child that they have value?
*Edit (5-18-10)
Here's a link to Family Communications Inc.'s response to the initial Wall Street Journal article. Just the article, it's not a response to Fox's commentary.